From Romance to Lasting Attraction: The 3 Phases of Love, From Infatuation to Deep Attachment
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Why do some relationships feel like a fairytale at first but eventually fade, while others deepen over time, growing stronger in the face of life’s challenges? From Romance to Lasting Attraction uncovers the universal three-phase journey that all lasting relationships undergo—from the exhilarating first stages of infatuation to the deep, stable bonds of long-term attachment. If you’ve ever wondered what it takes to cultivate love that stands the test of time, this book offers the insights and practical advice you need.
Drawing on psychology, neuroscience, and real-life stories, From Romance to Lasting Attraction explains how each stage of love requires distinct qualities, shifts in perspective, and an understanding of the natural evolution of passion and intimacy.
The book delves first into the Infatuation Phase, where chemistry and excitement ignite our attraction. Here, you’ll learn why this initial spark is so intense, the role of brain chemistry in the "honeymoon" feeling, and how to understand this phase as the foundation upon which love can grow.
In the Romantic Love Phase, couples build a deeper emotional connection through vulnerability, shared experiences, and a growing sense of commitment. Readers will gain insights into how trust is developed and learn ways to maintain emotional intimacy, navigate challenges, and prevent love from waning as familiarity grows.
Finally, the Lasting Attachment Phase is where enduring love is created. Here, commitment transforms into a resilient partnership, built on mutual respect, shared values, and unwavering support. This phase explains how couples create a sense of "home" with each other, fostering a secure attachment that sustains even when life gets tough. Readers will discover actionable tips on nurturing love through the inevitable changes of life, from parenting to ageing, ensuring that passion and companionship continue to thrive.
With expert insights, interactive exercises, and thought-provoking questions, From Romance to Lasting Attraction is both a relationship guide and a self-reflective journey. Perfect for couples new and experienced alike, this book provides essential tools to help readers understand where they are in their relationship journey—and how to move forward with love, intention, and understanding.
Whether you’re navigating a new relationship, hoping to deepen an existing one, or simply curious about the science of love, From Romance to Lasting Attractionis an indispensable resource for anyone seeking a love that’s built to last.