I live in Sapain.looking for a serious single gay man. Not casual sex.

Hello, I live in Spain. I am a single gay man. No children and I am 53 years old. I would like to find someone lonely and different; a serious single gay man, honest like me. ( SO PLEASE NOT MARRIED MEN OR THOSE WITH DOUBLE LIFE OR SEARCHING FOR MONEY). Everything begins by having a friendship and maybe fall in love with each other if all goes well. To share our lives and not to be alone in the old age. It is difficult for me to find someone, because my mentality is not the typical one of the gay scene; where everything is superficiality, stereotypes and appearances. SO, NOT MEN WHO ONLY SEARCH FOR SEX OR FUN. For me that mentality is not important and feelings, values, and a person's way of being count much more. I seek to connect emotionally and intellectually, not just the physical. I am someone romantic, deep, genuine, responsible, sensible, sensitive and thoughtful. I am sensual not sexual, I MEAN: I like to cuddle, to hug, massages, kissing, rubbing, oral. I don´t want a top man. I don´t like political manipulation . I like genuine people. I like movies, talking about everything, music, reading, going for a walk, I hate reaggeton, vulgarity, rudeness and fanaticism. I am not into nightlife. I am calm, homelike.